A year ago I decided to take him to Shriners Hospital in Philadelphia. From the first visit, they listened to all our concerns. At that first visit the doctor decided to try casting for 5 weeks. Kaleo got to choose his cast color. He choose green for his favorite superhero Hulk.
Down the ASD Rabbit Hole
I'm a mom of two. One a 14 yr old beautiful princess and a 5 yr old handsome superhero who happens to have autism, epilepsy and a brain cyst. Join us on our journey down the rabbit hole.
Sunday, March 13, 2016
Update on Kaleo's legs
A year ago I decided to take him to Shriners Hospital in Philadelphia. From the first visit, they listened to all our concerns. At that first visit the doctor decided to try casting for 5 weeks. Kaleo got to choose his cast color. He choose green for his favorite superhero Hulk.
Many changes have occurred.
Kaleo will be 6 next month. He has been in a mainstream classroom with all his support services and 1:1 para since September. He has his moments but overall he's adjusted pretty well to being in a classroom of 21 kids. He was in a 12:1:1 before. I will post how our journey with autism has gone over several new posts.
Wednesday, November 12, 2014
Tuesday, November 4, 2014
Parent Teacher Conference
However, after speaking to his OT, PT, Speech therapist and teachers I am simply gleaming with pride. I got the same comment from each and every one of them "He is the highlight of my day. I look forward to meeting with him" Each and every one of them said that to me!!!! It was such an amazing thing to hear!! They all mentioned how funny, smart and hard working he is. My little man!...the same little boy who just a couple of years ago would cry and meltdown in his therapies. The same little boy who would roll on the floor screaming and who at times I was at a total and complete loss as to how to help him.
Today was a good day. It was a day that made me see that although I might sometimes feel as if I'm not doing enough for him I've been doing something right.
Sunday, August 10, 2014
Super powers? Me?
I don't have super powers because my child has autism... In fact I'm just a parent trying my best to care for both my kids. Somedays great.... Somedays I falter but through out it all I keep trying. I don't always know the best way to handle it when my tween daughter gives me attitude or when my ASD son decides he wants to hit me. In those moments I question if I'm doing the right things for them, in what aspects have I failed.
When he does hit me ( which isn't often..he's actually only hit me twice) I find myself at a loss. I sternly tell him " don't hit me" .....does it fall on deaf ears? Is he getting what I'm saying? Is it registering ? I don't always know. I tell him " I don't hit you, don't hit me" followed by a time out. He usually talks the whole time he's on time out....sometimes even saying he's not my friend and that he's not going to talk to me anymore.
As always it doesn't take long for him to come and try to hug me or kiss me. Always followed by "I'm sorry mama" it's especially hard to deal with these moments alone. I don't have anyone that I can say hey just watch them for a bit I need to just lock myself in the bathroom and cry.
So no, I do not have super powers....I'm not one of the chosen ppl God has decided deserves a special needs child..I'm just a parent....a mom. ....trying my best.